MEN exaggerate about how much sex they have while women do the opposite – in a bid to fit their stereotypes.

A report found people are keen to follow commonly-held gender views when it comes to sex.

But they were less worried about being seen as “different” in other activities.

The study found that men were willing to reveal that they sometimes wrote poetry.

And women were happy to admit they told obscene jokes.

It was only when it came to sex that men wanted to be seen as “real men” with fibs about lots of partners, while women downplayed their sexual past.

Study author Professor Terri Fisher, from Ohio University, said: “There’s something unique about sexuality that led people to care more about matching the stereotypes for their gender.”

In the study people were asked about a range of things, including sex, then they were asked the same questions, but told a lie detector was being used.

Professor Fisher added: “Men and women had different answers about their sexual behaviour when they thought they had to be truthful.”

Now this sounds about right to me hmmmmm what do you think?

LilyBee xxx

Could one tiny pill really spell the end for those eternal words: ‘Not tonight, dear, I’ve got a headache’?

News that a female Viagra that boosts a woman’s sex drive is set to hit shelves in three years’ time suggests so.

But do women really want it?

 The new pill, called Lybrido, uses a combination of testosterone and a Viagra-like drug in a bid to increase sexual desire and improve sexual satisfaction.

Viagra has proved to be an extremely profitable drug, with worldwide sales at nearly £1.5 billion a year.

Scientists have so far struggled to create a female version of the drug, however, because while Viagra has a physiological action on men, increasing female arousal depends as much upon psychological as physical factors.

Dutch firm Emotional Brain claims to have developed a pill that resolves this dilemma by combining a Viagra-like drug with testosterone.

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Can popping a pill like Lybrido ever fix female sexual desire?

The physical effect of Viagra magnifies the effect of testosterone on the brain's pleasure centres, and the pill should be taken three and a half hours before sex to have an effect.

The results of a trial involving more than 200 women have not yet been published, although Emotional Brain founder Adriaan Tuiten describes them as "very, very promising".

A larger trial is planned and it is hoped that the drug will be on the market in Europe and the US at the end of 2016.

Dr Tuiten claims that the pills enable women to make love more often and improved their chances of reaching orgasm.

He believes that they will be most popular with long-married women who tend to experience a drastic decline in sexual desire over time.

Dr Andrew Goldstein, a US expert in female sexual health, told the New York Times that drug companies such as Emotional Brain will be under pressure to prove they are not turning women into nymphomaniacs.

There are also fears that Lybrido could put women under pressure to perform, while sceptics of the drug point to the myriad of cultural factors that have a bearing on libido.

Dr Tuiten says that up to 43 per cent of women suffer from a low sex drive at some point in their lives and that, far from turning women into sex maniacs, the drug will simply raise a low libido to normal levels.

Dr Mike Wyllie, one of the team of scientists that discovered and developed the male impotence drug Viagra, described Lybrido as "an interesting concept".

So ladies what are your thoughts on this new pill?

Bye for now x

LilyBee xxx

Todays topic is Objectum Sexuality otherwise know as object sexuality.

Why do people feel the urge to have sex with inanimate objects? Objectum-sexuality is a rare sexual condition in which the object of affection is literally an object. People with objectum-sexuality fall in love with inanimate objects and have relationships they believe are reciprocal. It has been classified in the past as a paraphilia, or sexual disorder, but some sexual psychologists are now beginning to believe it is a sexual orientation like heterosexuality or homosexuality.

How does a relationship with an object work?

Objectum-sexuality is different than having a favourite sex toy or being really fond of a possession. While there may be an element of fantasy involved in that the objects probably do not have real feelings for their lovers, people with objectum-sexuality view their relationships like anyone else. Objective sexuals believe objects have a power or life force that isn't human, but real and feeling nonetheless. The loved object provides comfort, emotional support, and even sexual stimulation.

Often, people with objectum-sexuality report "making love" or being physically intimate in their relationships. This is different than masturbating, because even though the object doesn't physically reciprocate, the person with objective-sexuality believes that the object reciprocates with feelings.

What kinds of objects are relationship material?

Any object may be loved by a person with objectum-sexuality, but many of the most-documented public cases involve humans who fall in love with buildings or monuments. The Eiffel Tower, various bridges, and the Berlin Wall have all be objects of affection. A carnival ride, a bow, and a fence have also been love objects discussed by the media. Obviously, there are practical obstacles to a person wooing a public monument all day, so many objectum-sexuals have scale models in their homes.

What happens if two people fall in love with the same object?

With a highly public object like the Eiffel Tower, it can be hard to stake a personal relationship claim. When two objectum-sexuals love the same object, it's generally not a problem. Many people with objectum-sexuality are also oriented toward polyamory and don't see any problem with having multiple partners or letting their love object have multiple partners.

What causes objectum-sexuality?

No one knows for sure where objectum-sexuality comes from, not even objectum-sexuals. Research suggests a link between Asperger's syndrome and objectum-sexuality, though less than a third of objectum-sexuals have been diagnosed with Asperger's or any other form of autism. Some cite childhood abuse or molestation as possible causes, but again, that does not explain a majority of cases. Much like heterosexuality or homosexuality, objectum-sexuality usually begins to manifest during puberty.

Hope you enjoyed todays blog x

Love LilyBee xxx

Do you spend more time fussing over your phone than fancying your partner? Well, you are not alone.

A study has shown that 94% of Brits would prefer to live without sex than their mobile phone.

Take our quiz to see if you are text maniac or love machine!!!

What would you prefer: Playing on apps or quality time with your partner?

A) My partner.

B) A steamy session accompanied by my phone’s playlist.

C) I prefer megabytes to love bites.

Which urge is stronger: A night of passion or a few games of Candy Crush?

A) I would rather push my partner’s buttons than my smartphones.

B) Ideally I would like a night of passion with my other half... lit by the soft glow of my smartphones screen.

C) I would rather feel phone on palm than skin on skin.

Do you ever use your phone as a way of changing your mood?

A) No, a cuddle is better than an emoticon.

B) Yes, I’d rather have a smiley on a text than a grin from my other half.

C) I like to tell my Facebook friends about my mood as a status update.

What’s your favourite way of speaking to your partner?

A) A face-to-face chat.

B) Skype.

C) Whats App.

Which of these smells do you consider the most erotic?

A) Massage oil smeared on my partner.

B) A leather phone case, mixed with my partner’s sexy perfume.

C) The smell of a freshly anti-bacterial-wiped screen.

How often are you tempted to touch your phone?

A) Only when I need to make a call.

B) About as much as I touch my partner.

C) All day. And night.

If your partner suggests a sexy evening in, how do you feel?

A) I can’t wait.

B) Excited... but might have a sneak peek at my phone before and after.

C) I prefer the buzz from a text message to the prospect of frisky fun.

How often does your partner or loved one complain about your phone usage?

A) Never, they have my full attention.

B) Often, but I split my time between my loved one and my phone.

C) All the time – when they can get my attention away from my screen, that is.

If your partner threatened to leave you over your phone and technology habits, what would you do?

A) I’m not that bothered about my phone, so that would never happen.

B) I’d compromise. I can split my time between my Android and my lover.

C) I’d convince them they’re wrong by offering naughty pics on Snapchat.

Which of these images sets your pulse racing?

A) The soft curves of my partner.

B) A picture of my partner in the buff on my lockscreen.

C) The angular lines of my smartphone.

How did you do?

MAINLY As YOU are in control of your technology habits. You’ve found the right balance and value the usefulness of your phone – but crucially you value your relationships more.

MAINLY Bs YOU are in danger of becoming mobile-dependent, which could put a partner off you if it worsens.

MAINLY Cs STEP away from your phone. Extreme problems are looming for you, your relationship and personal life if you don’t put that mobile away right now.

Hoppe you had fun with this x

LilyBee xxx

Jake and I arrived back late tonight but we have had a wonderful time at the spa and I feel totally refreshed. We decided to try out the Beginners Waterproof  Harness last night because we had a shower in our room so it seemed to us to be the perfect product for this occasion. So after a wonderful relaxing day Jake and I headed to our room and after a lot of kissing and foreplay finally ended up in the shower hehe!!

The harness itself is designed for beginners and although it is specifically made for the shower, it can also be used elsewhere. The dildo is small and thin and can even be used anally if desired.

The harness is made from neoprene and has nylon straps and the great thing about these materials is that you can wash them. The dildo is made from rubber. Jake slipped on the harness and told me that it was comfortable to wear and it felt great against my skin. The harness straps around the waist and thighs and the straps are very secure. You could even use other dildos with this harness if you like, although this one felt fantastic.

The straps are adjustable and as he inserted the dildo inside me it felt cold at first but soon warmed to my body temperature and it really did hit the spot…

This is another toy I would highly recommend and because it can also be used anally, I had a little fun using it on Jake too x

 If you are interested in trying out this product yourself, I have added the link below for your convenience xx happy shopping xx

https://www.tuppyvibe.co.uk/item-p-tvs001/sis-sdi-shower-dildos/beginners-waterproof-harness/

Hi guys well its product testing day and because Jake and I are going to the spa overnight we have decided to take a product with us so keep yourselves posted and the review will be on tomorrow x

Have a great night x

Love LilyBee xxx

A woman is alleged to have bitten her boyfriend's penis when he turned down sex. The defendant then grabbed the victim and bit his penis.

If ever there was a tale that you should listen to when it comes to letting women down gently, then this is it.

Krystle Harrison is alleged to have delivered the ultimate punishment to her boyfriend when he turned down her offer of sex.

According to a police report, the 19-year-old was in bed with lover Jeffrey Wilkinson when she got a bit horny.

The report states: "The victim and defendant were in bed.

"The defendant wanted to have sex with the victim and began to touch him."

So far, so good - in fact, it's pretty much as good as you can get really.

But it was at this point that things allegedly turned ugly.

The report continues: "The victim informed the defendant several times that he did not want to partake.

"The defendant then grabbed the victim and bit his penis."

But it didn't end there.

Harrison is also claimed to have followed her boyfriend out of the house, slapped him and spit in his face.

Wilkinson decided not to press charges, or receive medical treatment to scratches on his chest.

There's a moral here, but we're not sure what it is...

Mmmmmm a little strange why he didn’t press charges don’t you think?

LilyBee xxx

Has sex become more of a chore than enjoyment for you? Then it is time to spice it up and do something different. You or your partner have settled into what is known as the comfort zone and both need to add a little something to your sex life. Try talking about your fantasies and opening up about things that you would like to do to each other or have done to you. Relationships take a lot of compromise and lots of hard work to keep it strong and progressing. Make an effort with each other and you will see a huge change in your relationship and how you are with each other. Go on give it a try…..you wont regret it I promise x

LilyBee xxx

I read in the paper today that an unsuspecting man set up a camera to capture a ghost but got a lot more than he bargained for. Instead he actually saw his own girlfriend having sex with his son. How devastated must this man have been? He obviously held a lot of trust for this woman and to actually see this with this his own eyes must have been so upsetting for him. His girlfriend 28 was caught starting to snog his 16 year old son and then went on to do the deed. She has pleaded guilty to having sex with a minor and so she should!!!!

What ever is wrong with some people these days? They just don’t seem to care about the consequences anymore and it goes without saying that I know that I wouldn’t be very happy at all if he had been my 16 year old son, even though I don’t have children. Shame on this woman for not knowing better x

LilyBee xxx

Hi guys I trust your day went well. Mine went very well as Jake took me out for lunch and then treated us to a night at a spa at the weekend. I cannot wait because I have never been to a spa but have always longed to try out the facilities. I think this is just the thing for Jake and it will help him to relax before returning to work on Tuesday. He seems to be back to his old self now and the panic attacks have stopped which is a great relief. What are your plans for the weekend? It’s a bank holiday again so it will be a nice long weekend for all of us. I just wish that the weather would pick up but hey ho that’s the way life goes sometimes x

Bye for now x

LilyBee xxx