Well its product testing day guys so the review will be up on Monday x 

Have a great weekend x

LilyBee xxx

Yesterday I put up a list of places to go around the world where you will get more than you bargained for once inside.

Are you feeling down on your luck and like to gamble? Then take a look at number 9!!!!

No.9 Macau, China

Have you been to the Venetian, Wynn and MGM hotel casinos in Las Vegas? Now try the ones in China. Located in South China, Macau's legalised gambling laws have made big money for the country and gotten it ranked as one of our top 10 sin cities. It has already surpassed Las Vegas twice for total gambling revenue and boasts the world's largest casino, the Venetian Macau. In all, it packs 33 casinos into 11 square miles with plans for plenty more to come. Like Las Vegas, Macau also advertises tons of women for extracurricular entertainment. While the prostitution laws contradict themselves in the books (it is legal, but procuring it is not), it’s practiced more and more out in the open.

Down on your luck? You might get lucky here.

Ha ha ha doesn’t it just show you that there is so much going on in the worl that we are totally unaware of?

Number 8 on Monday now as it is product testing day tomorrow yippee!!!

Bye for now and have a great night x

Much Love LilyBee xxx

Apparently there are clubs all over the world that not only offer you the chance to dance, but also allow you to have sex like they did in the Middle Ages. Below is an article I have found and I shall list them from numbers 10 – 1 each day. This really is an eye opener!!!!!!

SIN Cities in which you can pursue vice and debauchery have existed throughout history, from Rome's glory days when you could follow up your bet on a gladiator with an orgy, to Shanghai where you could float for days in opium dens high on sex and drugs.

In the 21st century, new sin cities around the world have taken up the cause and we've compiled them all in our list. The criteria for a location to make our sin cities list is pretty simple: It has to offer a strong presence of gambling, sex, drinking, drugs and/or partying.

Here are the top 10 sin cities that made the cut.

No.10 Berlin, Germany

Bring out das gimp! Latex pants, tops, chains, whips and S&M are all the rage in Berlin, one of the world's most fetish-friendly sin cities. Need to be punished? Turn yourself in to any of the city's sex dungeons for rehabilitation. Want to dance at a club you can also have sex at? The KitKat Club will oblige. Between the First and Second World Wars, Berlin established the world's first institute for sexual science, which, among other things, had a porn collection that puts every teenager's hidden stash to shame. This openness inspired cabaret and burlesque shows. Plus, at a popular nightclub of the time, patrons could even send cocaine vials by pneumatic tube to other patrons.

In modern-day Berlin, prostitution is legal everywhere. So, if handcuffs and zipper masks don't do it for you, working women will be happy to oblige.

So what do you think of that then hehe???

More tomorrow x

LilyBee xxx

Hi guys hope you are well. Jake is whisking me off out for a romantic meal tonight so I have been shopping for some sexy attire to wear to seduce him after. How are you spending your evenings? 

LilyBee xxx

Hi there guys, I hope you are well x

I had to put this article in my blog today because it did make me giggle x

Hope you like it!

Men mature much later than women - according to study of BOTH sexes!

A quarter of women claimed they were the ones who had to make all the important decisions in the relationship!

Men and women have finally agreed on something – most men don’t grow up until well into their early 40s.

Both sexes believe blokes stay “immature” at least into their late 30s and often as old as 43, a study has found.

Men and women agreed that women reach proper maturity much earlier than guys, at the typical age of 32.

Eight out of 10 women quizzed said they believed men “never stop being childish”.

A quarter of men described themselves as actively immature – more than double the number of women who did.

Women were twice as likely as men to feel that they were the “grown up” in their current relationship.

A quarter of women claimed they were the ones who had to make all the important decisions in the relationship.

The same percentage wished their partner would talk about themselves and what they were feeling more often.

Some 30% of women questioned said they had ended a relationship because they lost patience with their man being overly immature.

And 46% of women admitted having had a relationship in which they felt they had to mother their partner a bit too much.

Women claimed they had to tell their man to “act his age” more than once a month – 14 times a year on average.

On the bright side, 40% of people said they thought immaturity was important in keeping relationships fun and fresh and 33% said it helped when bonding with kids.

The survey was commissioned by TV channel Nickelodeon to promote show Wendell & Vinnie, in which a carefree 30-year-old bachelor becomes guardian of his intelligent 12-year-old nephew.

Director of Programming Tim Patterson said: “As a man who works for a children’s channel, the question if men ever reach maturity is one I am well accustomed to.

“However as the characters show in our new programme Wendell & Vinnie, a difference in maturity between two people makes for an amusing partnership.”

The show is on weeknights at 7pm.

MEN’S TOP 30 MATURITY FAILINGS - AS EXPERIENCED BY WOMEN

1. Finding their own farts and burps hilarious

2. Eating fast food at 2:00am

3. Playing videogames

4. Driving too fast or ‘racing’ another car at the lights or on the motorway

5. Sniggering a bit at rude words

6. Driving with loud music

7. Playing practical jokes

8. Trying to beat children at games and sport

9. Staying silent during an argument

10. Not being able to cook simple meals

11. Re-telling the same silly jokes and stories when with the lads

12. Don’t like talking about themselves/ having proper conversations

13. Hating books/reading because of short attention span/they’re boring

14. Doing crazy dance moves

15. Mum still doing their washing

16. Having their Mum still make them breakfast/any meal

17. Wearing trainers to night clubs

18. Owning a skateboard or BMX

19. Not eating vegetables

20. Changing jobs regularly

21. Getting too excited over stag dos

22. Sometimes trying to do wheelies/stunts on their bike

23. Driving a modified car or one with a loud exhaust/boy racer

24. Showing off about how girls are attracted to them

25. Wearing pyjamas, specifically cartoon pyjamas

26. Using dodgy chat-up lines

27. Showing off about protein shakes/weight-lifting/how much they ‘lift’

28. Littering

29. Wearing saggy-crotched jeans

30. Having a cartoon bedspread

Do you agree with this? I think I do haha x

Bye for now x

LilyBee xxx

Hi guys so sorry that I havent updated but unfortunately my mother fell last week and with my sister being away until today i have had to stay with her to help her out. She is much better now luckily but she really did do her back in. I have to say im relieved she is better as it was such a scare at one point!!!! Oh well everythings fine now and Im so glad to be back home with Jake.

So todays topic is an article I read earlier and i found it fascinating.

Woman, 47, who has never experienced an orgasm, finally reaches climax after gynaecologists design a bespoke sex aid

• Kim Smith from Hemel Hempstead had 'tried everything' to reach climax
• Gynaecologist designed orgasm-inducing device which finally did trick
• Says Eureka moment with nifty toy was 'life changing' experience
• Successful intimate aid is now sold in Ann Summers nationwide for £40
• Sex Toy Stories documentary airs on Channel 4 on Thursday evening

Kim Smith finally reached orgasm after designing a sex aid

With recent research showing a third of women struggle to climax and 68 per cent only pretend to, it seems the female orgasm can be as much of a mystery to women as it is for men. 

At 47 years old and having never experienced the sensation herself, Kim Smith knew this all too well.

The grandmother of five from Hemel Hempstead had never reached an orgasm even after trying many different products and techniques - until trying a revolutionary new 'tripod' sex aid designed by a gynaecologist.

She says she never knew that there was anything more to sex, didn’t know what she was missing and 'honestly thought that the female orgasm was a myth’.

Married and divorced twice, the mother of two daughters and a son had been unlucky in love until she took part in a documentary about intimate toys.

Believing she had nothing to lose, Kim decided to put herself forward for a new project with lingerie and sex toy retailer Ann Summers.

Following a nationwide search and intensive selection process eight real women were chosen to become The O Team panelists. 

Over the past year, the panel worked closely with lingerie and adult toy shop Ann Summers to develop a new range of products, designed with the bedroom needs of the nation's women in mind.  The resulting hour-long documentary will air on Channel 4 on Thursday.

Starting the project, Kim had the biggest challenge and journey ahead of her. 

Working closely with Ann Summers buyer Mark Brewer, Kim was given a prescription of products to try at home. 

With little success from existing popular styles Mark suggested Kim try a new, supposedly less intimidating toy designed by a gynecologist. 

When she finally took home the experimental toy home to test, Kim was unsure at first.

'I was hesitant because of my past experience with using sex toys. However, thanks to its non-threatening appearance I felt at ease.

'It never looked anything like other sex toys, wasn’t really noisy and was tried and tested by a gynaecologist, so I trusted it without being burdened by fear of being let down.'

The 'tripod' toy has two side prongs, designed ergonomically to fully surround the clitoral hood, while a third middle 'finger' targets the exposed clitoris. 

The first time she climaxed - with the Ultimate O - Kim says was 'life changing'.

'I was home alone and decided to romance myself by running a hot bath with oils. I played soft music in the background and gently caressed my body. 

'I then sat on a yoga ball and watched myself in the mirror as I explored my body with the toy. 

Kim, pictured in 2009, grew up sheltered from talking about sex and 'didn't know what she was missing'

After much perseverance and practice, Kim finally reached orgasm with the new experimental toy.

The moment the orgasm came, Kim says, was a 'life-changing, lovely experience' and 'out of this world'. 

Kim believes that the toy works because the aesthetic 'isn’t phallic and scary' to those who haven’t had much luck with traditional vibrators in the past - it also has different textures, vibrations and isn’t covered in confusing buttons and switches - it is colour-coded, so the user can remember which setting they prefer. It also focuses on the outer part of the vagina, not just the inside, and is multi-functional. 

'The experience has brought me closer to my daughters and my sister. My daughters were surprised I had never had an orgasm before. We can now talk openly about sex - something we never did before.'

With her newfound confidence Kim, who works as a carer for the elderly and dementia patients, is now dating someone new.

She has never suffered from body confidence issues but grew up not talking about sex. 

'I was never open about the subject. Sex was something that was mechanical, sometimes enjoyable, but mostly something I did to keep my partner happy.'

She admits that she was so busy looking after her family, sex was 'never a big deal' to her or a particularly important part of her life - mostly because she never experienced a climax and never knew that it could be pleasurable, rather than functional. 

Now, Kim says her 'inability' to orgasm has 'definitely been cured.'

'Although I haven’t had an orgasm with a partner yet but have felt closer to climax than I ever have (especially now I know what it feels like).

'I feel more confident than ever that it will definitely happen once I’m in a secure, loving relationship as my emotions play a huge part in being able to climax. The toy though still hits the spot every time I use it - because I trust it.'

She also says after recommending the toy to her sister, she got a phone call after she tried it saying: 'All I’ve got to say to you is - wow wow wow! Best thing ever!'

'The experience on the show and the creation of the Ultimate O has definitely been a learning curve. I feel much more  in tune with my body than I ever have. I have educated myself to learn about what is happening inside rather than just the outside. 

'Before when I was having sex, I wasn’t focusing on what was happening inside - emotionally and physically - now I experience all different sensations I genuinely never thought I was capable of.'

Because of this newfound confidence, I can relax more during sex and know in my heart that I will orgasm through intercourse - I’m looking forward to that day. 

Kim admits that in the past she had tried using sex toys with partners in a bid to make sex more pleasurable for her, but found it difficult to fully relax as she always found them too noisy. 

Kim, pictured in 2008, was embarrassed to be the only one in the team to have never climaxed

After completing a questionnaire compiled by the gynaecologist, she began the journey towards opening up her mind to female pleasure - it was then that she realised that she had put up a mental barrier after years of being in unhappy relationships and sadly, a turbulent relationship with her mother when she was growing up. 

She also admits to putting a mental block in her head after years of being sheltered about sex, the female orgasm and mutual pleasure.

Kim says what also helped was spending time with diverse, open-minded women - her fellow O Team sex toy testers.

They were shocked that she had never had an orgasm and she was able to openly speak about her lack of experience and make her realise that sex should be fun, open, comfortable and a giggle - not something to put on the back burner and do because you had to or something that is hurtful. 

She admits: 'I could see the pity in the O Team girls' eyes, which was at first, embarrassing, but the journey became easier after I received positive support from the Ann Summers team and the O Team ladies.'

She described the process as enlightening and, once her confidence grew, she began experimenting with 'self-loving'.

In terms of what made her take the plunge and apply for the show, Kim says although sex and pleasure were subjects she wasn’t 'particularly confident in talking about openly', after years of putting her family first and herself second, she decided to concentrate on herself for once now her daughters have grown-up.

Actor MICHAEL DOUGLAS believes oral sex gave him throat cancer.

The Oscar winner was diagnosed three years ago but fought the disease and is now working towards a full recovery.

He tells The Guardian newspaper he initially thought the stress of his son Cameron's incarceration brought on his cancer, but he has since learned he may have contracted it from cunnilingus.

Douglas, who has persistently battled claims he was a sex addict long before he wed Catherine Zeta-Jones, says, "Without wanting to get too specific, this particular cancer is caused by HPV (human papillomavirus), which actually comes about from cunnilingus.

"I did worry if the stress caused by my son's incarceration didn't help trigger it. But yeah, it's a sexually transmitted disease that causes cancer. And if you have it, cunnilingus is also the best cure for it."

Cancer experts believe HPV, a sexually transmitted virus which causes cervical and anal cancer, is a contributing factor in the rise of throat cancer.

Do you belive this is a  little too much information from the celebrity or has he done the right thing by making people aware of this problem x

Answers below please xx

LilyBee xxx

Well what can I say about last night other than pure amazing.

Jake and I tried out the Tantus Charmer Dildo so here is my review. This dildo is made from silicone that is body safe and has small ridges along the edges for a very interesting texture. This dildo is also harness compatible and anal safe. It is about seven inches long and the widest point has a diameter of a little more than an inch.

The Tantus Charmer is a purple ridged dildo and its head is the largest in diameter whilst the toy gets smaller towards the base. It is flexible enough to fit your body’s curves which is a great feature.

This dildo has a slight curve for g-spot pleasure and for an easier insertion. It really does hot the g-spot as I quickly discovered hehe!!

As Jake used it on me the sensation of the ridges were most certainly felt. There is a large ridge along the head which really did make me yelp with delight.

This dildo should definitely be used with lube for a more pleasurable and comfortable experience.

After use it is easy to clean with warm water and antibacterial cleaner, but I have to say we had a few hours of fun with it before it was put safely away until next time.

This slender ridged dildo really did hit the spot over and over hehe so I would highly recommend this to all of you x

Hope you enjoyed this review x

LilyBee xxx

If you are interested in trying out this product yourself, I have added the link below for your convenience xx happy shopping xx 

www.tuppyvibe.co.uk/item-p-tvd016/tantus-charmer-dildo/

Well hi there readers hope your day is going well. I have been chilling in the garden today with a nice chilled bottle of wine as the weather was glorious. What was it like where you are?

Jake and I have decided that we will be testing out is the Tantus Charmer Dildo. I am very excited about trying out this particular toy because I have heard great reviews about it myself x

So until tomorrow, have a great evening because I know I will hehe xx

LilyBee xxx

Well guys the weekend is here again and tomorrow night is product testing night. We havent decided which products we are testing out just yet but we are going to pick something later x

Hope you have a great evening x

LilyBee xxx